
Turns out that ex-NFL player Tiki Barber is in hot water for spending a little too much "quality time" with his new mistress, Traci Lynn Johnson. Reports are that Barber is planning to leave his wife, Ginny, after 11 years of marriage. If that isn't enough to put Barber in the doghouse, his wife is also pregnant with twins. Barber's mistress allegedly told her father that she was spending a great deal of time with Barber, because she was babysitting his sons, who are now 7 and 6 years old. She was an intern at NBC, and Barber is a correspondent there.
"This decision was a painful one," Barber said in a statement, "but we are moving forward amicably and will continue to work together to raise our children with the love and dedication they have always known."
This divorce scandal has put a damper on the Tiki Barber brand. Barber, whose brother, Ronde, was also a very good NFL player, has always carried a squeaky-clean, good boy image that seems to have been tainted. It will be interesting to see how his career with the 'Today' show progresses now that the situation has come to light.
What's also interesting is that whenever a celebrity leaves his wife, we tend to conclude that the celebrity was the bad apple in the relationship. I am sure that most of those speculating on the decisions of Tiki Barber have no idea about what was going on in his marriage and can't presume that he is somehow abandoning an innocent victim. This is not to say that his wife deserved any of this, but the truth is that none of us really knows what happened.
Well, at least with his new mistress, Tiki won't have to worry about hiring a babysitter.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and the author of the new book, 'Black American Money.' To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your e-mail, please click here.
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By: patti777 on 4/10/2010 3:27PM
What is wrong with these celebrity/baller wives? Everybody knows that the nanny and the house keeper need to be at least 25 pounds overweight, have a little hair on their chins, and speak only enough English to get by! You hire a cute young nanny and you deserve exactly what you get!
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By: Nelli on 4/10/2010 4:02PM
Now how would it had played out if TIKKI had been dating a BLACK WOMAN>>>>>>>>>> and his wife was expecting TWINS......? HUSH HUSH SWEETIE. Just keep Makin MY CAR PAYMENTS !!!
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By: manning barr on 4/10/2010 6:09PM
Tiki almost always tried to portray himself as holyier than thou, it turns out he's no better than a lot of the people he like to be critical of. He reminds me of the grinning azz who bare false gifts. It's wrong for any married man to leave his pregnant wife for another woman, what it shows is that he don't give a hoot about the vows he took when they got married.
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By: Kelz on 4/10/2010 7:17PM
Another irresponsible grown-azz adult...
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By: FEE on 4/13/2010 12:09PM
This is exactly whats wrong with our people a successful black man 99 percent of the time is married or dating a white woman but when that black man is selling drugs or not working at all they want to be with a sista brothers we need you when u succesful to whats wrong with you guys......
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By: trina on 4/10/2010 10:15PM
what a ass hole he is . how could he do this to his family and those unborn babies , he is a sorry ass for a father lets just the kids will know better . how could he just do his wife this way . i hope she take him for every thing she can get . he was off the hook and as far as the girl that bitch would have never beyouen at my home in the first place . you never leave a women around your man bitch cannot be trust it . i do not fuck with women bc one cross me out that bitch is mine all mine . lol
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By: Cstu on 6/21/2010 9:58PM
As my mom would say, "God don't like ugly".. Now, this guys leaves his wife when she is 8 months pregnant, which tells me that he's been cheating on her while she was pregnant, he cheats with the 23 year old baby sitter, and now he refuses to pay her what she needs to take care of his kids. This is definitely "ugly". Stuff like this will someday come back to haunt him, without a doubt. I sit and think about some of the things I did, when I was in my "dumb and stupid" phase, and this one definitely has me beat..I will take a bunch of making amends to get your positive karma back...
But just to keep in check, I called my ex-wife (who is now one of my best friends and a wonderful mother to my grown kids), and told her I was sorry, again after reading this craziness.
C.
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