
There's a lot of buzz right now about the very real fact that Tiger Woods' marriage may be coming to an end.
It's been stated in a variety of media outlets that the final straw for Elin Nordegren was the Nike ad featuring Tiger with his late father's voice in the background. The ad uses pre-recorded audio from a conversation that Earl Woods had with Tiger's mother.
"Elin was violently angry over this commercial and thought it was a cheesy thing to do," one friend told People. "[Elin] wouldn't have gone near the Masters under any condition, but that just made her madder," the friend told the magazine. "She is over Tiger. I wouldn't be surprised if she files for divorce sometime soon."
Tiger's wife has been an enigma for the media, which has done all it can to figure out her next move. The strongest move to date was the fact that she chose not to appear with Tiger at the Masters tournament this weekend, where he placed fourth overall. Media speculated that Elin did not want Woods to play in the Masters, since she felt that his return to golf was too soon for them to have properly worked out their problems.
The truth is that Elin didn't have a chance to gain complete control of Tiger's heart, and that's just a simple fact. Tiger married the game of golf 33 years ago, and that divorce may never happen. I felt bad for Elin when she went through her traumatic experience with Tiger, since no one wants to find out that their spouse is being so irresponsible with his body.
What's even worse is that Tiger has shown his famous capacity for massive insensitivity by turning his back on Elin and returning to the game he loves. What's completely clear is that Tiger should have never gotten married in the first place. While some might feel sympathy for what Elin went through, she likely knew what she was dealing with from the beginning (or should have taken the time to find out). Additionally, millions of Americans go through the pain of divorce every year, and most of them don't have $100 million to make themselves feel better.
Perhaps it's best that they both cut their losses. This will probably not get any better. This experience also serves as an interesting lesson for the women out there who dream of marrying a professional athlete. All that glitters may not be gold.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and the author of the new book, "Black American Money." To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here. 
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By: Tanya PK on 4/14/2010 3:40PM
$100 million can re-shine any tarnish off whatever piece of gold. Elin (and all the other celebrity marriage troubles of late) need to get over it and go on a shopping spree. It always seems to make me feel better!
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By: Come2mebabee on 4/14/2010 4:23PM
Oh what is the big deal. He cheated on a bottle blonde immigrant domestic servant nanny employed by his friend. He cheated with other blonde trashy women. She needs to take her 100 million and go home. Awesome pay day for her!
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By: Mimi on 4/15/2010 7:41AM
I AGREE WITH YOU. THEY MAY AS WELL JUST DIVORCE. ELIN IS VERY PALE WHITE. HER SKIN IS AGING BAD. THERE IS NO WAY SHE CAN LAST ANOTHER 5 YEARS WITHOUT COMPLETELY CRACKING UP ALL OVER HER FACE. SHE HAS CROWESFEET (WRINKLES AROUND THE EYES...WHITE PEOPLE ARE KNOWN FOR GETTING HOWEVER VERY RARE FOR BLACK PEOPLE) AND SHE IS IN HER LATE 20'S.
IF SHE IS ALREADY WRINKLING NOW, SHE IS GOING TO LOOK A MESS IN THE NEXT 5 YEARS. HER LIPS ARE EXTREMELY THIN ALREADY.
IN ORDER TO FIX HER PROBLEM SHE WILL NEED PLASTIC SURGERY AND WELL WE ALL KNOW HOW THAT WILL TURN OUT.
TIGER SHOULD GO AHEAD AND DIVORCE HER NOW. THERE IS NO WAY HE IS GOING TO WALK AROUND WITH A WOMAN WHO LOOKS OLDER THAN HE DOES. BECAUSE ELIN IS AGING RAPIDLY, IF HE STAYED WITH HER HE WILL STILL CHEAT ON HER AGAIN.
IF HE CHEATED ON HER PRIOR TO HER GETTING ALL OF THOSE WRINKLES THAT SHE NOW HAS, WHAT DO YOU THINK HE IS GOING TO DO TO HER IN THE NEXT FIVE YEARS. SHE WILL BE LOOKING A LOT OLDER THAN HE IS AND HE WILL BE OUT THERE CHEATING AGAIN.
IT'S BEST IF HE GETS OUT NOW.
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By: raywil3 on 4/15/2010 11:26AM
Why don't you jealous wannabes stop dissing this woman? She did what she needed to do to get him to marry her. The black women he knew obviously didn't have enough game to get Tiger. There marraige may be over. Elin is getting hers. Why can't you?
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By: Truethat on 4/14/2010 4:38PM
Good for her, I am so happy she's beginning to bring CLOSURE to her marriage and finally moving on with her life. I hope God will bless her with a husband who is compassionate, honest and FAITHFUL. I know they are out there.
Elin, I am excited for you. It is definitely a wise decision to break that unhealthy SoulTie. I'm sure you've learned alot from this experience.
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By: mzjanuary205 on 4/14/2010 6:00PM
Oh please, she's upset because he chose to play in the Masters instead of taking time off to work on their marriage? Get over it, blondie. By playing in the Masters, he took home his share of money...part of that will certainly certainly go to her in their divorce settlement. Shut up, take the money and move on. Tired of hearing about this whiny white broad. If Elin were black, nobody would even care.
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By: Angel on 4/14/2010 6:41PM
While I am a fan of Tiger Woods, I cannot for the life of me understand why YOU continue to trash his wife Elin! How is it HER responsibiilty to keep HIS dyck in his PANTS??? When you say "she should have taken the time to find out", that's nearly like saying that she should have stalked him! Then Tiger would have called her 'insecure' or 'crazy' or 'posessive'. The wife can't win for losing! So she trusted him. Now his infedlity is partially HER fault? You men are crazy as hell. ALL of YOU.
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By: Truethat on 4/14/2010 8:23PM
@ Angel
EXACTLY, I AGREE 100%. The majority of men are male chavinists. This article is pure NACISSISM. It's a ALL about ME and only Me attitude. Me, Me, Me, Me, the hell with you, my wife and my kids. Disgusting!!!
According to the Word of God, A man is to love his wife as Christ love the church. God first, Family second and career/worldly desires third. However, of course we are living in a time where men will be LOVERS of themselves and only interested in PLEASING the ME syndrome. REAL SADDDDDDDDDD!
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By: G Hale on 4/14/2010 7:18PM
Yea Phil and every other golfer that has been married for years need to hear that Tiger is bringing the marrying a pro golfer into question. Please, there are more successfull marriages on the PGA tour then anywhere else in sports. This article was a guess and only written so that the author can use he buddy Tiger as a reference. Its stupid and uniformed guessing and this author should be raked for making up marriage stats. I bet your no talent booty is divorced...nice. Most of us follow guys like Phil anyway...and its not a white thing, its a class thing.
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By: charles on 4/14/2010 9:32PM
this is a perfect oppurtunity for tiger to get it together there wasnt any marriage to save after the scandal broke there was nothing to save all the wavering either she was going back or not it was just a matter of how much she was getting its best for both tiger should go over seas and play and never come back for the way he was treated here and she has now just become the highest paid nanny/swimsuit model when will we learn blonde hair blue eyed is the medias darling and the blackmans curse oops i mean amerasians right tiger
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