
What's interesting about LeBron vs. Kobe is that one guy has always been a team player and stayed out of trouble (LeBron). The other one (Kobe) was accused of rape just a few years ago and was also once known as a prima donna who wouldn't pass the ball to anyone other than himself. My oh my how times have changed.
The point of clarity for me regarding just how far Kobe's career has come since the rape allegations seven years ago was when I saw Bryant in the White House cheesing and talking smack with President Barack Obama. "Wow," I thought. "The President of the United States has no problem being photographed next to an accused rapist."
This is not to say that I disagree with President Obama's decision to take a picture with Bryant, I probably would too. It is also not to say that I believe Kobe raped anyone, since athletes who like to "get around" are easy targets for predatory women. But understanding just how careful the president has been when it comes to being associated with the wrong people and with black men (he hasn't said the words "black man" in public at all this year, according to my count), I was stunned that he felt so comfortable spending time with Bryant on such a large stage. Had Kobe wanted to hang out in the White House five years ago, the president would surely have been busy that day.
Kobe's comeback has been a beautiful thing to watch. Both he and Michael Vick have gone down that ugly path only preserved for the black athlete in America. It is the path in which a public backlash might spontaneously combust like a forest fire being fueled by racism and America's long history of hatred of African American men. On this path, mountains of devastation are created out of molehills of common mistakes. The margin of error for the black male in America is incredibly small and we've long been considered less than human.
Kobe Bryant has gone from the depths of embarrassment to becoming the darling of Madison Avenue. Last year, he was in the top five highest paid athletes in the world. He has five NBA titles under his belt while being young enough to bag at least a couple more. He has helped rebuild the Lakers from the team with a gaping hole in the middle (after losing Shaq) into a powerful collection of amazing players with great synergy feeding off the talent and experience that Bryant brings to the table.
Both Michael Vick and Tiger Woods can learn from Kobe's rise. Although I was saddened by Bryant's decision to cheat on his wife with a woman he'd only known for a few minutes (we should have learned something from Magic Johnson), I was proud to see him use discipline, focus and determination to rebuild his life instead of choosing to self-destruct. I have a great deal of respect for Kobe Bryant.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and a Scholarship in Action Resident of the Institute for Black Public Policy. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.
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By: dre on 12/17/2010 11:39AM
It is so very unfortunate to read an article which looked to be so full of positive vibe turn out to be such a negative write-up. The reader comes away feeling like a kid who opened neatly wrapped Christmas gifts only to find coal. These guys don't need to continue to receive such bad press, especially from family. Overall, they're good guys who made mistakes in their lives, which I am sure 100% of us who were born have done. Give us more to smile about. We're still proud of the accomplishments of black men and women, especially those that are not perfect. Thanks!
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By: hzhizh on 12/17/2010 12:23PM
The other one (Kobe) was accused of rape just a few years ago and was also once known as a prima donna who wouldn't pass the ball to anyone other than himself. My oh my how times have changed. I am an Air Force and single at present .I need a woman who can love me back ..I also uploaded my hot photos on Uniformedmingle .C oM under the name of hoho212..It's the largest and best club for seeking Army, Navy, Marines, Air Force, Police Force, and the admirers of those who wear the uniform.I just hope you don't mind me being a soldier ...Please Check it out!I'm serious.
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By: Dizzle on 12/17/2010 1:11PM
Sorry Dr. Boyce, but this article is just awful and full of contradictions.
1. Bryant visited the WH and was photo'd with the President last year after winning the title.
2. The photo above didn't actually take place at the WH, rather at a DC Boys & Girls club. The WH decided against the traditional ceremony in favor of this community service event. Kobe wasn't just "hangin' out in the West Wing".
3. Obama has been photo'd next to far less savory characters than Kobe Bryant.
4. Kobe's metamorphosis didn't just happen this year. He's been a team-centered MVP caliber player for 5 seasons now. Have you even been paying attention?
Seriously, put a little more thought and attention into your craft. This piece was just terrible.
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By: bob on 12/21/2010 4:26PM
dizzle Boyce is a child. His hate for the white man clouds his reason and it shows in his writing. kobe has always been a team player and im my opionion is second to only michael jorden Labron james will never get the honor of nemesis as far as kobe is concerned, not even close! Boyce has a love affair with Labron James and Michael vick. I am sure that all the above athletes are greatful that Boyce is proud of them and would love to be in a picture with him...NOT!!!!
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By: Terry on 12/18/2010 11:47PM
Wow - what a really awful piece of writing. If you were aiming for a thought provoking piece you failed miserably.
If you had respect for Kobe, you would have refrained from disrespecting him like you did in this article. Not to mention the fact that you disrespected your Commander in Chief as well.
I know your mamma raised you better than that!
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